If your relationship ended with harsh words and accusations, you might think it is over for good. If you still love your man and want him back, it can be done. Your ex boyfriend probably said his share of harsh words also and he might be wondering if he can get his ex back. Love does not die because of a breakup. There is a no fail tactic to make him realize he still loves you.
It would be nice if you could just call your ex boyfriend and he would tell you he loves you and come running back. That only happens on television and in the movies. This is real life and it takes real life tactics that never fail to get your ex back. One of those tactics involves male psychology. As hard as it might be to do, you have to let him go. Not forever, and you are not really going to let him go. You are just going to work on his mind by making him think you are letting him go. This will get his attention very fast.
The best thing you can do is to disappear. Take a mini vacation or visit relatives and friends that live in another city or state. If it is not possible to get away right now at least stay off his radar. When he looks around and realizes that you are not trying to get him back and you have disappeared he will be confused. Your ex boyfriend was counting on you coming after him when he broke up with you. Now his plans to make you beg him to come back have blown up in his face.
This will make him wonder if breaking up with you was a good idea. He will also become aware of a huge void in his life and soon he will realize the void used to be filed with you. He will remember your voice and your sweet smile and your ex boyfriend will miss you like crazy. He will try to call you, but you should not take his call. This will be using male psychology to make him feel you are no longer available to him.
He will begin to kick himself for being so stupid. He sees that you are the best thing that ever happened to him and he threw it away. Male psychology will also tell you that the longer a man is away from the woman he loves, the more lovely and desirable she becomes. By using the tactic that never fails, you have given him the opportunity to experience his life without you. He sees how much he loves you and does not want to spend his future without you. Your ex boyfriend will find a way of contacting you and when he does, he will be begging you to take him back.
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